After a split up I wonder how many times people have thought these four words, I would like my ex back. Normally when there is a break down in a relationship, for that first week or two you put up a brave front saying to your friends or simply about anybody who will listen that you simply couldn’t care less, have no need for them and am better off without one. All of your family and friends are saying virtually exactly the same, probably using the old line that you simply would great for them anyway and there are plenty more fish within the sea.
That’s great but following the first week apart your heart is telling you that you simply miss them, you may be having trouble sleeping, can’t concentrate at work, don’t wish to get out there and are simply feeling plain miserable. So what can we do about it? how can we make sure they are ours again?. There are some things we are able to do, there are a few things that we mustn’t do.
10 Things We should Not Do
We should not constantly ring them
We must not text them constantly
We must not arrive in their house uninvited
We must not wait outside their workplace
We must not drive past their house at all hours from the night
We must not confide in their friends
We must not send them gifts
We must not frequent their most favorite coffee shop
We must not write them a letter
We must not ask their friends out
Okay so now we all know what we should must not do how can we go about reconnecting with them. Start going out again, the moment they hear that you’re out and about their ears will prick up and suddenly they will need to know additional information.
Should you bump into one of their friends let them know that everything is great together with your life right now, and you’re simply having a ball.
The main thing is to just decide to start enjoying life again. Believe me the moment they know you are out there and happy your phone will start to ring. Once they do ring be polite, answer their questions without giving to much away. If they get around to asking you out decline the very first date they come track of (you don’t want to appear to keen) make out that you simply already have an appointment on that day, state that you would like to get out there and ask them to provide you with a call in a few days to set up each day.
When you get the second call accept venture out, have fun but make sure they drop you off afterwards, remember you don’t want to seem to keen. Next just let nature take its natural course